Why men don’t step up for women.

Ladies, you know how it feels when you’re around a man who is so healthily in his masculine that it makes you go weak at the knees? It’s incredibly sexy, and creates a very powerful polarity between the two energies. Most women feel swept off their feet when they experience this. Some women will be…

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Why I no longer trust my husband the way I used to…

We were chilling in bed the other morning and I was chatting to Andy. I stopped talking and rested for a while. He raised himself on one elbow and leaned over me. With so much love and a smile in his eyes, he kissed me and said “Thank you”. I asked “What for?” He said “For giving…

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Soul Awakening…

Some years ago I discovered that I am an Enneagram type Two. The Enneagram is an ancient wisdom which teaches about the 9 ways of ‘being’ and perceiving life. It was created mainly for the egoic traits that arise through each type. Each of the 9 types are different, but have pretty much default and…

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Life is not all roses and fairy dust…

Some valuable lessons I’ve learned in life: Happy is wonderful, but it’s still a noise, a striving, and dependent on things outside of me. Peace is so much more consistent than happiness. I cannot be ‘happy’ if something bad happens to someone I love, but I can be at peace with it. Those who give…

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You have the power to choose…

Would you choose to wade through the cold, torrential water, or walk over the bridge? Of course it’s a metaphor, but believe it or not, many choose to wade through the cold water when it comes to their daily life. Why? Because it takes some fortitude and self-change to decide that the bridge is not…

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Saying Goodbye to Mum…

My Mum passed away at home on 26th May 2015. She had a peaceful passing, my brother and I by her side. I held her hand for the last few hours until she drifted away. It was just as she wanted; to be at home, both of us with her. A few minutes before she…

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How we gamble on our relationships every day…

Making assumptions – they really can cause so much damage to our relationships. Anything your partner says or does has to travel through your filter system. You then make an assumption about what it means based on your beliefs and expectations. However, your assumptions are just as likely to be incorrect as they are to…

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