Manifesting, or manipulating?…

I was having a great conversation with my beautiful Soul-Sister a while ago when she came to visit. One of the topics we got into chatting about was something that is widely sold and accepted nowadays… that financial wealth is a measure of self-worth. As far as the law of attraction is concerned, this statement simply doesn’t resonate with…

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One couple’s breakthrough to love…

We worked with a couple recently who had been together for 3 years. Our couple – let’s call them Mike and Ann – have given us permission to share their story. These are not their real names, and these photos are not of them – our clients always maintain full confidentiality. Mike and Ann were experiencing difficulties…

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The Perfect Relationship?…

Are you striving to seek the perfect partner for you, or are you in a relationship where you’re constantly wishing your partner were different, or more perfect? If so, then I’d like to share some tips with you on how to bring out the perfection in the people around you, particularly in your intimate relationship.

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How to Build an ‘Affair-Proof’ Relationship…

Firstly, it’s important to point out that there is no absolute way of guaranteeing an affair proof relationship. There are many factors to take into account; who your partner is as an individual, how they feel about themselves which will often determine how responsive they are to attention from others, whether they maintain healthy boundaries,…

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How to reconnect when love has fizzled out…

This can be a very tricky question to answer, and it’s one we’ve been asked many times. We were called by BBC Radio only last week to take part in a radio discussion on exactly this subject. Male/female friendships –  it’s a line that can so often be misread, become confused, or cause upset not only for…

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What we perceive as negative is not always so…

I truly believe that we all have a purpose and destiny. I believe this so deeply, particularly now that I have spent so much time studying the reality of the 9 Enneagram types. I can clearly see the innate gift which each type has to offer the world. This gift is intrinsically tied in with…

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Can men and women ever really just be friends?…

This can be a very tricky question to answer, and it’s one we’ve been asked many times. We were called by BBC Radio only last week to take part in a radio discussion on exactly this subject. Male/female friendships –  it’s a line that can so often be misread, become confused, or cause upset not only for…

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Is your communication style sabotaging your relationship?…

We often take the way in which we communicate with our partner for granted, rarely giving a thought to the tone of our voice or the words we choose to put our message across. I can’t express highly enough how important effective communication is in any relationship, because whatever form it takes will create the…

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Stand up and be counted…

If we always walk away from confrontation, convincing ourselves that we are the better person by not responding, sometimes that can be egoic in itself… because often the real message is that doing so will somehow prove to others that the issue doesn’t bother us, and therefore mean that we must be the bigger and…

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Is rejection your default perspective?

Do you get upset when someone you really like doesn’t reply to your text? You see, so much of our giving takes place on a hidden exchange system, even though we’re blissfully unaware of it. When it does, it’s because we need or want to hear something back. So for example if we send someone…

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